hi mybump-
can you change your phone number today? that way, he can't call.
if you are serious about going no contact, the next time he shows up drunk at 2am pounding the door, you can call the police.
please take care of yourself. you are pregnant! you need peace and rest, not a drunk at your door. he certainly is not taking care of you in your first trimester, is he? take note!
naive