Originally Posted by
nodaybut2day 
Seems to me a few legal consultations are in order here.
If I understand correctly, your AW is getting high while caring for your infant children?? If so, then something needs to be done asap to ensure that they are not put in any danger. By "something" I mean, find alternate childcare.
I agree with Noday. Immediately, Strucken.
Get a different care for your children.
They are not being cared for by your wife.
Which means they are unsafe right now.
Beth