Originally Posted by
Shellcrusher 
I think this only works when you don't have kids. After that the rules change. Someone needs to represent them and in your case, that's you. I admire your determination to help your wife but when she's passed out and your 4 year old is jumping on her to wake her up, it's no longer a team thing.
Hmmm, touche, that is whu I put her in rehab. FOr better or for worse, she is still my wife,and I will give her every fighting chance I can. But once again, it will no longer be at the risk of my children's safety. I see that now, that is the biggest thing I have taken away from all this, I have let go of my denial as far as the danger she poses to my children. Now, I still have to work on the blame thing, I have gotten better, I am partially responsible, the doctors are majority responsible, and of course, she is ultimately responsible...there, I said it.