I am very proud of myself for being strong, brave, and resolute to not be treated like dirt. Despite being worried about money and at times feeling tremendous amounts of guilt, I refused to give up on my life and be in a unhappy, dysfunctional marriage
I am proud of you too!!!
You sound SO different from your first post! You sound strong, capable, and determined -- and that is awesome!!!
I don't know what the state law is where you live, but you might have the right to use state troopers to remove him from the house. That is,
him -- not his stuff. You might have to pack that up and hire a moving company, but that's the easy part. Getting him to actually leave (remember to change the locks) is the hard part.
And I'm excited for the new life you have ahead of you! Thank you for coming back and updating, and for the strong encouragement!!!