thank you. it is kind of what i was expecting to hear actually. and to be honest, his drinking right now doesn't cause that much of a problem.. he rarely goes out anywhere without me, and like i said, doesn't get violent but i am still very concerned about the amount he is drinking, from a health point of view. but that is right now. i am wondering whether things will be different in a few years time...
he said to me a few days ago that he would try to drink less in one sitting (because i confronted him about the amount of beer he was drinking in one day). this morning i found the empty 12 pack of beer his bandmate had brought around yesterday afternoon and texted him to say "i though you were going to drink less beer in one sitting. you drank the whole 12 pack yesterday" and he responded with "yes, over a 8-9 hour day". is it just me or does 12 beers over the day seem excessive? i feel like i'm the one with the problem... i'm so confused.