Actually the sad part is, I have done this before. Once in 2003 and didn’t talk to him for almost 3 weeks. He jumped on the rehab band wagon and I believed him and we ended up back together. And since I didn’t learn the lesson that time, there was another time in 2009 I left him but that only ended up being for a few weeks.
3 strikes and he’s out, that was my deal breaker, so I look at it this way….three times a charm and I know I can do it for good. I've had enought hurt, pain and dissapointment from this man to last me a life time.