Thanks for the encouragement and the welcome. I will try some different meetings. I know too many stories about AA from relatives who have gone, but I felt like a hypocrite when I was in Al Anon. Trying several meetings and looking for the right group is the key. I just have a very tight schedule with two jobs and very active kids/young adults. Was hoping to save some time. Anything worthwhile must be difficult otherwise anybody and everybody would do it.