Originally Posted by
cutelittlewife 
I put some time aside this weekend so we can sit down and write a post-nuptial agreement so in case he relapses we don't have to deal with all that crap but know exactly what we're doing about the house, the car and the child/ren.
Wow.. check with a lawyer of the wording, legality and get the signatures notarized, you might be glad you did.
(Funny thing about getting divorced, they forget all about what they agreed to when there was nothing at stake).
Also, if you're taking steps like post nuptials, (if a thing legally exists) then you might want to rethink the baby in a couple months plan.