EXACTLY Callie! It's almost like let me just say sorry cause that's what I am suppose to say, but if I was TRUELY sorry, you would not only hear it in my words but you would SEE it in my actions cause I would do something different! Also, if you realized how deep the hurt was, you would know it wasn't going away over night and I couldn't just move on already! I was (and still am) going to counseling for "MY ISSUES" which were trouble forgiving, trusting ect... And that still wasn't good enough for him! I give up.