Originally Posted by
LaFemme 
That said. I think SailorJohn has a point...what type of person are you looking for and perhaps why are you looking?
I think you missed the point I was trying to make, mine was more of a rhetorical question.
'Matching mental illnesses', I can have these women pick me out of a crowd, or if I'm so inclined, I can pick them.
Now if I'm just looking to get laid-pardon the vulgarity-I don't need an online dating service. For now, think my best bet is to stick to the personal growth thing, and leave the relationships thing on the back burner.