I am speaking for myself only here - take it or leave it. In my life, and in the issues and problems that I have faced, the one thing I've always held onto is HOPE. I may not expect something to change or happen in the way or timeline I want it to, and I may have to work hard to divorce myself from "dealing" with it every day - but I have to hang onto a little bit of HOPE in my life. And I think i always will.