Originally Posted by
cutelittlewife 
Since I found out, he has changed a lot, he now helps around the house and with the baby (he's the cutest father ever, he has so much patience for our 'terrible 2', also, she's a spitting image of him). He jumps up whenever I need something and has been treating me really well. I do think there's hope and he genuinely regrets it. It doesn't mean I trust him completely, but maybe some day I will be able to.
Not trying to be negative here, but I need to share my thoughts.
The honeymoon phase, it's great isn't it, makes YOU feel needed, wanted, loved and cared about. His attentiveness helps you forget about the reality of what he did. Gives you both hope for a perfect future together.
Does he know what triggered his last relapse? What is he doing today that is different for his recovery then he was doing when he relapsed?
I do hope you work it out, I do hope he find and stays in recovery. I hope you find your way to your own STRONG/SOLID recovery and that neither of you ever have to go down a path like that again.