^^ thank you about the 3 C's...they will help...but also...you know you can go to AL ANON...there is no fee, no age limit, anyone can go....this group will help you with tools and slogans and well, let you know what happened to them....sounds like you may be a CO dependent...look up at the stickys...read, read and do more reading....in my blogs, i have many slogans to help day to day...which has helped me ALOT...good luck, blog and post, and become friends with us all!! we are all suffering just like you...but have tools to help us, and know when to say NO...we do recover..and it takes time...
he is gonna want the help himself and he needs to do his own work