Originally Posted by
Dignity 
Zombiewife, I'm not quite sure how to answer that. Well~~I do. I want so badly to turn it off but on the other hand if he wants to reach out for rehab and help I want him tobe able to no matter where he is. My head says turn it off~~my heart says let him keep it. I know~ I sound so confused. My moms 97 year old hubby had a stroke. She;s 87 and I'm trying to keep her above ground, I watch my grandson 3 afternoons a week and I'm concerned about my son. Right now I just want to run away and breath without feeling this pain in my heart.....thanks!
I watch Dr. Phil and I love him. The last program was about parents and grown children. He said to the daughter (about her phone that mom paid for) "If you can't afford it, you can't have it".
And B, he will continue to do this until he picks himself up by himself. Don't feel bad, turn off the phone. If he wants rehab bad enough, he knows how to get there. Take care of yourself and your mom and her hubby!
Hugs, K