I can relate, parentneedshelp. I too have to watch an addicted daughter choose drugs over her 4 y/o daughter time after time. Her daughter is living w/me and it breaks my heart when she cries for her Mom. I also have dumbed tons of time and money into trying to "save" her. All I can do now is hold my grandaughter as she cries for her Mom and try to work on my own recovery, which is very difficult. However, the alternative of leaving her w/her using Mom is worse....so I hang in there and know this situation is the best I can offer to my grandaughter.