It's been a while since I've read the rules on posting and being conscientious about other people and if I'm out of line, I will gladly accept the repercussions from a mod.
I came to your thread for reasons of my own but I also wanted to lend you some support. Now I get to read some lame ass post from your husband under your account. A great deal of trust just went out the window there.
There's plenty more I could say but in the end, I honestly hope both of you can work out your problems.