Well, he did actually give me money for groceries today, but I agree. I found his checkbook, and with just checks, he spent over $100 on fish stuff last month. Possibly more, but I don't know if he bought food for the dogs and cats at Petsmart, or fish stuff.
It seems lately like he's trying to goad me into an argument. We lost power during the blizzards up here(and he was stuck home for 3 days) for a few hours. I sat and folded laundry and just stayed active to keep warm/busy. Meanwhile, he sat and sulked about not being able to play his game, and sat on his blackberry. When I asked him to help he just glared at me.
He really doesn't like the detachment thing, not in the slightest. Oh well, he'll get over it some day.