I'm so glad your daughter is okay. I raised three boys. They are all grown up now and I'm glad. Frankly, I couldn't handle the stress of raising a teenager again. My heart was pounding as I read your post.
Sometimes my boys made me crazy with the stuff they pulled.
Like you there were times when I worried myself into a real frenzy.
But I have to say that it was all worth it. I almost lost one of my sons because he had so many issues with my AH (his dad) that for several years I wondered if I'd ever see him again. But I have him back in my life. I adore my sons and we are friends.