I went from living in a lakefront house looking up at the Blue Ridge Mts. to divorcing and living in a basement apt. and I am so much happier. The alcoholic/addict kept the mt./lake house but is getting ready to lose it because he can't afford it. He can't work since he is a fellon from so many DUI's. Mentally I am doing 200% better without the stress,worry, abuse, and substance abuse. The other stuff were just things....I have me back.