Thanks for the concern and advice. I honestly hadn't considered a risk as far as safety when it comes to him...I was more thinking he might just be a d**k or maybe cry at me and emotionally I am just not in a place where I want to deal with either. He has been verbally abusive, but never physical with me; although I understand that this situation is not something to be taken lightly. I am taking my brother and perhaps my father as well, but they are the only people in my life I feel comfortable involving. My brother isn't available until Wed. so I am going to have to do it then. AH's parents also live upstairs and are his "landlords" so I am letting them know I will be coming in case I have any trouble (they are still reasonably supportive of me).