Congratulations--what triggered the restraining order and what was the last straw for you? Threw AH out 3 mos ago, we have 3 babies 15mos, 5, 7. I feel bad for them. You will get supervised visitation no problem. She is done.
My AH says he is going to AA 3x day but I can't tell because he is living with his parents in another state. When I filed for divorce a few years a go, judge gave me a restraining order for myself and the kids and I didn't even ask for it. I had only filed for financial support, but when he read my papers and what had been going on the Judge was MAD.
Do't sweat the custody thing--you will win.
Hailee