Hi,
Starting reading (listening on IPOD) Codependent No More. I've made a decision to start getting better around the 2010 holidays when my life became unmanageable. I was married to 2 alcoholics, the latter one died 10 yrs ago and I was left with 3 teenage children. After transferring my control to my teenage children's lives, I spent 10 yrs on a roller coaster ride never realizing I needed to get off!
I am relieved to finally read something that nails who I am and makes sense of why this all happened. I thought I was nuts. I look forward to getting better with this group. I've never seen so much healthy insight as I have found here...Thanks to however started this up.