Originally Posted by
Impurrfect 
I also recomment paying more attention to her AFTIONS...whith A's words are just words. They'll tell you what you want to hear (t0 string you along)
My A strung me along a very long time until I finally paid more attention to what he did rather than what he said. He would tell me constantly he loved me, he missed me, he missed "us" and all the usual lines to keep me "on the hook". But, his actions didn't show he loved me, missed me or even missed "us", etc. When I finally listened to his actions, I started seeing my situation for what it really was and saw how empty his words always were and always would be. I will always love my ex A (I still do) but I found it hurt far too much to love him and I had to let go. I learned love is not supposed to hurt as badly as it did for me being in a relationship with my ex A. Tough lesson to learn the hard way, but I am a better person for it.