Hi there,
I really love listening to music when I am in my roller coaster of emotions. Somehow the right song seems to come on everytime. Lately I am liking firecracker by Katy Perry it seems to be giving me motivation and strength. I really like the words to the song above who is it?
I remember the feeling when I found out my husband had relapsed. I had not been with him during his drug use I met him after. So I had no experience with boundaries and detaching. I found going to meetings helped me a lot, but it was mostly the talking after with the women and some men that had been through it. This site was a lifesaver for me also. Even when I did not want or feel like posting reading the other posts helped so much. I also go to a counselor every week and still need it even though my husband if on suboxone currently.
Sending out prayers and hugs for you