theuncertainty

I just have to say: he is acting so juvenile. It reminds me of my son and nephew playing together when they were younger, like ages 4-5. "But he took my Lego first!". "No, he started it!"

Yep, I wish I hadn't listened. When he got past all of the lying to the excuses, it was all my fault.

I just wanted to share that I left him because we were renting from his dad and sister. DS was 3 when we left. It was hard. But as I pondered living with or leaving Now-XAH, I realized that I was already parenting alone, I was already supporting our family monetarily alone. It took me a while to leave once I decided to, I had to plan it and save for security deposit and rent.

There was more involved with my decision; a lot of factors unique to my situation. Whatever decision you make will be the decision you need to make.