Reading the quacks he's coming out with tells me his thoughts are still "pie in the sky" and not near reality......rehab or not, something is NOT getting thru.
As for his reminding you to iron his shirts.....WELL.
I figure he could iron them himself while he is still "up in the air".
Frankly I could use the steam iron to IMPRESS on him, that if he wears it, he irons it.
I would go to his Rehab, along with some of his family members, and let him see that his game plan to manipulate his way out of trouble, is a fizzer.