Tjp, He is white knuckling it. We discussed that he was going to feel the need to get more and that his mind was going to tell him that he needs more but he says he is going to fight it.
He was a little over the top last night. He told the kids many many times he was not leaving. Once or twice was enough.
He does dishes, cleans, plays with the kids, and cares when he is not messed up.
I am being vigilant. He has no money from me and I had him give me his wedding ring and jewelry yesterday.
He has had outpatient treatment once before. The only other option would be inpatient treatment which he does not want. He says he is done. His last day was Christmas Eve. We shall see.