Hey Beautiful Girl Great Name. First off You need to take care of you. I have been there grasping straws to hold it together. The thing that sticks out to me is the ULTIMATIUM in a relationship communication is the glue that holds it together. When you get demands then you need to evaluate where they come from. Honesty is tough but straight forward and to the point. If you don't want drugs in your life then accept no less in your life. Most guys bluff the leaving to get their way. Besides if he choses drugs over you then really what would you lose.