Deleting her would probably cause an argument between the family and bring things to a head. I still have to see her when I visit my Nan and my Mum has to see her too. Like I said I don't want to hurt her feelings and feel deleting her is a little extreme given that she doesn't even know she's annoying me. I was looking for a tactful way of putting her in her place really...not sure if there is one though, lol.