Go to an al or naranon meeting..you will learn about addiction and how to make boundaries for YOU. My daughter was actually dianosed with marajuana dependence..experts in the field DO think you can be addicted(she was an every day smoker from 14 on).I know it can keep you real immature and from being a full participant in life. You do not have to rush into anything,,alanon/naranon will not tell you to leave or stay..it's about how YOU want to live.