He is continuously using. He smokes before work, at lunch, on the way home and when my 17 year old son is not home, in the evening too. Money has become an issue too. We are going through some financial issues and need to do less spending but his using is not helping. Last night I brought it up to him and after some time he finally admitted that he spends about $300 a month. I am estimating more like $400 minimum that I can track. He says he works hard and will spend the money the way he wants.
The part I am confused about is since he has a medical card and feels that it is ok. (he is diabetic). He said it just like someone who has a bad habit of smoking cigarettes or someone who drinks alcohol. Its a way to relax. Are we just on different paths in life now and it's just what I don't want in my life? Am I being selfish?
My 17 yr son does not know about his habit. I have become a pro at hiding and covering things up. I don't want him to ever find out.