wow ... THANK YOU so much for your posts. I'm so thankful that I found SR and that everyone can share. I go to alanon, which is great, but topics like this one are more for private conversations.
You touched on al the key feelings: tension, guarded, complaining, no trust, guilt, fighting, disgusted, repulsed, resentment, vulnerable, lots of sadness.
DMC - love the moratorium idea, that is setting strong boundaries! SO happy you are in a good place now.
Bolina - SO true about foreplay! We've had that discussion at home with little positive results. Crazy why that is so confusing to some ...
I really can't thank you enough for your support, as I was feeling like a loser through and through. The last thing on my mind is sex ... so many other challenges and obstacles in my life right now. You gave me more to think about - I'm grateful for that.
You are a great group!!!!
