It was never my intention to portray him as such. Things are the way they are now because he is in sober living and his program didn't allow him to work for the first 3 months in. I was frustrated and venting. He's not a sponging douche, but right now he's flat broke and could be trying harder to find work for sure, but... I am giving more than I am comfortable with and am feeling resentful. Not his fault, mine.