oh yeah, this is psychological at its worse.
you can suffer from PTSD after long exposure to someone like this.
transform, gird your loins and learn how to deal with a NPD.
you will have to put a shield around yourself.
damn, i wish you werent dealing with this.
remember always..........it is not you, it is her.
repeat that as often as necessary.
it is not me, it is her.
Beth