Thanks Hoopie.
I've been by her side numerous times when she's gloated in "doing the right thing now so we can f#$& them up later." so I'm working on not worrying about her possible retaliation. I am on deadline, of course, for the January issue of our paper so this is bad timing, but truthfully, she can't do anything else to me. I'll shovel driveways or do whatever I need to do. I won't fight with her anymore, no way.