Need Help
I need help and advice here to pump me up. My ex has contacted me again saying he scared and has been torn up over the next two weeks. He was very distant, abusive and ungiving to me in our relationship.
Why am I feeling guilty? I don't know. I almost offered up something the other day and stopped myself.
I logically know that if I offer to spend xmas day with him that I'll be enabling. My feeling sorry for him is a little overpowering right now. I logically know that after the holidays his friends and drinking will be number one. He doesn't give a s* about me. He could have spent the whole year working on genuine relationships with people but instead throws it all away on drinking with his friends.
Can everyone pump me up to not give in? Even if I did give in out of kindness, he could become nasty and demanding or something. I logically know it's a BAD idea.