Thank you for your responses! Thumper, you're right. I'm talking about a 19 year old and a 35 year old. However, when my 19 year old starts gaming his mouth becomes a "trash bin" and I try to correct his mouth. But now how I can I correct him if all we hear from my DDH's mouth is trash? You don't know how READY I'm to move out ......but I don't want to spoil their Christmas all together. I have already told them not to expect such a nice warm and cozy Christmas Day, considering their father. If I just can learn how to keep my mouth shut, I'm hoping my DDH won't be such a jerk on that day, at least.
Thanks!
Phoenix