Originally Posted by
Babyblue 
Still very early I know but the fact that he is making a better effort reassured me.
Is he in AA.. If so just remember that is will definitelly take a lot of time for the most part and that it is a very selfish program. But if he works the program right, he will use his selfishness from the past when he was drinking to work on himself which throught he program leads to "selflessness".
It is great that you are understanding and supportive to him he really needs it, and it is great that you are trying to help him out with all of this. Just let him take his time and don't rush him.
Thanks for posting!