I think, no matter what method we use, we have to find the desire in ourselves to quit - for good.
I don't know what to say to help you find that desire in you, but it's great you're still looking.
Don't lose hope - I battled this for many many years. I got it eventually. The ability to keep coming back is a great asset.
For whatever reason, sometimes we're more interested in abusing ourselves. Maybe it's easier to deal with the chaos than it is to deal with the change that sobriety brings, I dunno.
I hope maybe your new counsellor will be able to help you get to the bottom of whats going on here, JK.
Hope you stick around here too
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