Been a while since I wrote this and Yes yes this does help
He has slowly been doing better at trying to address my needs. He has been there a couple of months and I am starting to see the benefits in his demeanor and focus, more settled and less kooky. The fog is really clearing up.
He is struggling with depression but is also being proactive with that. I am very hopeful.
Still very early I know but the fact that he is making a better effort reassured me.