Bonbon,
I'm sorry you went through all of that. You really need to take this seriously and protect yourself. You did all the right things. Make sure you press charges this time if they ask you. If you let your A get by with it he will do it again and maybe worse. You need to call the police anytime he contacts you. Don't give him a break on this at all. If the police can't do anything because they didn't see it then you will need to make a citizen's arrest.
You will be putting yourself and your child in danger if you let one incident go. If he can't get to you this way he may then try to take your child to get back at you. Take everything seriously!!!!
Now that I got that out........ I hope you have a wonderful vacation. This is a perfect time for you to get away. You are wonderful and doing so well!!!! You should be soooo proud of yourself. Wow, you've come so far in a short period of time. I'll miss you while you are gone, but I'm so glad you're getting away.
Hugs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MG