Steve - I agree with CO. If what you say is true, you both have it bad. REAL bad. You've known this woman for like what 6 months? If you are in this deep, then what? I had it BAD, but am thankful it wasn't this bad. From what I understand she's a woman you were intimate with for like 6-7 monthes? If so I'm so sorry for you. I'm glad she's not your child or the mother or your children. Your journey is painful to read about. But how sad would it be if she were your child or the mother of your children. From what I understand she's a short term girlfriend. Hence the frustration here. My addict was a 22 year long relationship. THe mothers on here are fighting for their children for decades to get clean. 6-7 months for a prostitute? I just don't get. I'm sorry, but I just don't get it. You have no REAL emotional or physcal tyes other than you want to 'save her'. She can't be saved unless she wants too. Clearly she doesn't.