Babyblue,
yes he had a chance to see her in between. Even missed the birth of his 1st and only child. His excuse he was doing thousands of dollars of drugs and so out of his mind. It breaks my heart that he wasn't there and hasn't even met her. But then again it's his loss. It's like he's a different person now.
As far as help from an intermediary, what kind of help do you mean? And do you have any suggestions how I would go about getting help from a counselor or social worker?