Originally Posted by
Phoenixthebird 
Part of me wants to locate this doctor and apologize to him, and part of me tells me the doctor will not get into trouble with the clinic, and just let it go. I would appreciate some feedback on what I should do.
Well, since you asked. I think you should take your hands completely off your husband's medical treatment, relationship with his doctor, etc. It's his business, not yours. You cannot change the past, and even if you did cause trouble for the doctor, an apology won't undo that.
Moving forward, concentrate on
your own health and well-being. Leave your husband's issues for him to deal with.
L