Check the motivation for wanting him to meet his daughter.
He the sperm doner.
Does not sound like he has any interest in meeting his child, else he would have done so.
Does not sound like he has any intention of contributing to her support, else he would have done so.
Actually, he sounds like a big ole irresponsible baby who needs a mama to take care of him.
Where's the upside, given he has no interest in the responsibilities that go along with being a father?