Keepinon,
Good point. I believe he should prove he's serious about recovery. I'm trying to focus on just the baby and me. I thought it would be easier once she was born but I find it just as hard. I'm stuck in the house all day with a lot of time to think which drives me crazy.
Cynical one,
he doesn't have any of the things you listed. He's staying with some girl who's supporting him with a place to stay, car to drive and drugs. He told me while in jail he was going to drop her and get his own place, find a job and get a car. But why would he when she has made it so easy. He hasn't done one thing to prove he's capable of being a dad.
Miss Tara,
it is definitely wishful thinking. He wasn't there for her birth because he was so "messed up" what makes me think seeing her will change him? I do think that him going to a sober living home was his willingness to change and a good decision. Which makes me think maybe meeting his daughter will help him continue on the right path.