Summerpeach-
Our relationship was good, no fighting, no abuse-in fact I have never SEEN him take a drink.
We were friends for a couple of years before we had a romantic/sexual relationship.
We are so different, in so many ways...I am a non drinker, stable, financially secure, many friends, many interests.
He is none of the above, and I know that is hard for him.
I'm thinking I am delusional hoping this will end well...