thanks Phoenixthebird I read your post "Psychological/emotional/ verbal Abuse". and yes it definitely applies.He is verbally abusive to me ,more so to our daughter having threatened to "have her put in the nuthouse"on more than one occasion.Things have deteriorated since his retirement 4 years ago ,when he worked he only drank in the evening now it's all day .
If anyone wonders how I see the computer screen being registered blind,I have tunnel vision which means I can see a little in the central area ,like looking through a Smarties tube(not sure if you have those in US)