Hi SereniTee
The last boyfriend I had , while I was breaking up with him, was also talking about MARRIAGE. DUH. They seem to think once we are married we will put up with BS.
Go no contact. Funnily the last boyfriend also said ALL people sucked and were dumb manipulators and yadda yadda, well it is because he IS one and he finds similar people. He has lived here all his life, I have been here 2 years and have found people willing to help me and that have a good heart. So anyway, go no contact, wear whatever you wish, go out with whoever you wish (with caution). And be grateful you are not going to be manipulated into marriage just so someone else feels better about himself having an encaged pet at home to abuse. (Sorry if this sounded harsh)