When I responded, and hit send, I instantly realized that what I was trying to say was going to come across much differently than my intention. So I do apologize. I work with troubled moms and sometimes I come home from work banging my head against the wall because I see patterns of self destruction that defy logic. So yah, some posts do trigger me, I will be the first to admit it.
Some posts want concrete advice, others want comfort, it is difficult to know sometimes so half of what I say I just pull from my a** truth be told.
